Thursday, December 30, 2010

What to do?

What do you do when your stress level is at an all time high? We are going to lose our home. There I have said it. I have lived there for 11 years- it is home for me. My husband moved in more than 8 years ago, my son was brought home from the hospital there as with my daughter. We are happy there. However, due to my not working, Cami's expensive health issues, vehicles breaking down, house a/c breaking, emergency vet bill(s) owing IRS, paying to keep health insurance. We are broke. We can pay our current payment just fine- we just cannot catch up our back payments now and the bank will NOT work with us. They want the back payments. My blood pressure is through the roof, my bp meds are not helping. I am having a hard time eating because my stomach feels yucky all the time. I guess I am just having a pity party for myself. I am sorry that all of you have to hear/read this but I have to get it out somewhere and this is where I have to do it so that it doesn't come out in my everyday life. Where will we go???? I do not know. I have some injectible fertility meds in my fridge that I guess I could sell, but I don't know if that is even legal. I have lots of C>L>O>M>I>D as well. It took lots of money to have kiddo's. However, like a lot of us who have/had fertility issues if I had the money back for the cycles that DIDN'T work- well.... I could pay off half of my house, lol.

Any ideas my dear readers on how to magically come up with $6k?



  1. I sent you an email but not sure if you got it. Maybe you can add the ChipIn widget on your blog so that readers can donate. The money gets deposited into your PayPal account. Also, can a friend or a church host a fundraiser for you? Maybe even contact a local news station about what is going on.

    I wish that I had $6k to send you because I would!! Praying that you are able to keep your home, but if not, that He provides for your family's needs. {{{HUGS}}}

  2. Christy,
    I am so sorry that you are in the position that you are. I am like Jess if I had the money i would send it to you. I stll think the fundraiser is a good idea.Jess's chip in is also a good idea. There should be a social worker or a hopital Chaplin that you could talk to. I cant imagine the kind of pressure you and Kevin are going through. I worry about u . I know you had some health issues after Cody was born. PLease Please take care.
    I also think you should call the local news station. They might be able to put some pressure on the bank to be more understanding and more people would learn about your situation and maybe sonone would come up with a idea of how to help.You are in my thoughts and prayers.
    carol n

  3. Thank you both for your comments. They truly mean a lot to me. Yes, after Cody was born I had a stroke due to blood pressure and it is way up again. So, I am trying to keep it down but it is hard when everyting is falling down around me. However, I continue to pray that it will all work out and maybe it will.
    God Bless you both